Men - What's fetching and what's not ?

Turn on's :

• A potent combination of strength and vulnerability
• Spontaneity and Intelligence
• Generosity (both financially and otherwise)...Someone that is very giving
• A sparkling sense of humor/Wit
• Responsible and great with kids
• Treats his woman with respect
• Passion
• A tinge of jealousy and possessiveness
• Ability to play music
• Appreciation for finer things in life -art, music, theater, food

Turn offs:

• Lies, deceit and inability to step up and take a stand
• All talk and no action
• Treating women with disrespect (especially his woman)
• Double standards
• Vanity
• Being Cheap and/or money-minded
• Cowardice
• Short temper
• Insensitivity 
• Alpha male syndrome

Men are supposedly simple creatures or so they proclaim. From where she was looking there was nothing simple about a man. Maybe she was at a rare vista point :)